Too Gorgeous, Dude?

There are good men still around yes? no? Maybe so? What do they look like? Can a man who is overly good-looking truly, deeply be a good person? Most girls want that certain type of guy and most guys want that model chick but can somebody who has been showered with superficial attention there entire life truly be grounded and down to earth? How do we re-program our brains into wanting that average guy or girl because they are a good person over wanting the hot guy or girl? We are a media obssesed culture and we want that "prefect" looking specimen but i feel by placing such a high value on looks we are creating a narcissitic society full of self absorbed ass-holes. But on the other hand because I feel suspicious of the overly good looking man, I write him off as a player or a jerk, I may have messed up something decent with somebody....We will see what do ya'll think about this rant?

Black Man, Black Man

I had a conversation with a friend a few nights ago. The talk consisted of irratic manic-like talk about being done with dating. I have know interest, know desire to date at all. I haven't had bad experiences, I haven't even known really "bad" guys, I'm just fed up with Black men. All of them. In this blog I'm going to completly generalize all of you and lump you in the same category...so don't expect any slack from me here. Even my best friend...a 25 year old black man, a guy I have known since high school, he's just like the rest of you. He has somebody he loves and that loves him back but he refuses to just settle his monkey ass down and committ and be happy with her. Blackmen are always looking for the next best thing. There's got to be somebody else out there better then the one their with. Everything they do is led by their JOHNSON! Blackmen are so concerned with their image they want everybody to be jealous they want the next man to want what he has. Be it the throphy light skinned wife, (when you look at her in actuality doesn't look that great) the big house, fancy car, jewelry and so on. We live in a superficial society that is concerned with shit that's on the surface, one of which is superficial relationships with women. Purely sexual relationships are superficial, having and talking to many girls is superficial. This day and age blackmen don't seem to be concerned with the intricate, at times emotionally draining relationship with a "real black woman," with loving and deeply getting to know one woman, opening up completely without a second thought of who might be listening because don't forget you've got that image to uphold.

There are a lot of pretty girls out there but with a lot of shitty attitudes. The one good thing about my best friend is he doesn't do the typical black man thing and find ONLY the light-skinned girls diserable or beautiful. Just an observation but most of you guys walking around town, especially you cali dudes are usually with the lightest girl you can possible find. And the guys on here, most of you feature girls in your top 8 that are mostly light-skinned. Ya'll make me really sick I can't even lie. All of you there is not one that is getting in slack from me. I haven't met one black man that has proven my theory or who has exceeded my expectations. Even my dad who is the best black man I know still falls victim to some of the things that I'm starting to thing are systematically engrained in black men but nobody seems to be fighting it. And it's weird because I'm actually pretty happy because finals are over with but I woke up to a pretty shitty dream which spawned this rant and rave that I'm giving you guys.

So the things I said the other night about not dating anymore its not true If persued I will go on dates but they will be only for data collection and observation. My eyes will be open and I will be accepting those dates from "the others" this time around instead of waiting on a sorry brotha to talk a good game and then look for the next best thing in a few months time.

And know I don't think I'm the shit, I don't think that I'm better than anyone else I just felt it necessary to write down my experiences with black men and my thoughts on black men.

Where's Johnson?

OK, So my good friend is in a Human Sexuality class and they are required to do things that are out of the normal from their everyday lives. Be it a sex shop, be it a Drag show, or a gay bar or what have you and then write about the experience. She decides I'm not a porno whatcher what about watching a porno. So I look at hereand say, "Where does one get a porno?" She says, "good question." Being that we live in the District I can't imagine that there'd be a scarcity of nasty shops around here but nonetheless it is out of the ordinary for us so we don't particularly know where to go. Then I say," What about that on demand mess that we have, there's got to be some hot sex on there" (I'm sure I said something witty and funny like that but look I'm leaving room for a little poetic license). So she says, "Your right, your right." So I begin to search through the Adult entertainment section just to see what was the funniest title so we could at least get a good laugh out of it. There was, Cheating Housewives, Bush Hunter, Come to Drink of It (My personal fav title), Cheeks up Face Down (You've got to love the Ode to Ass Sex), Fire On The Hole, and of course Meet the Fokkers just to name a few but the title that really gave us a good laugh was our choice, My First Brotha. We thought this is going to be filled with knee slapping jungle fever action that was sure to please both of our funny bones. So we put the Flick on and of course the first thing you see are discustingly sweaty and unattractive white women and hideous black men. The makings of a hilarious cinematic experience. But half way through the shit we realized where is the JOHNSON? They focused solely on the white women. The only thing we saw were their faces, asses and tits! What kind of mess is this. I don't watch pornos, I think there pointless but the time that I do watch one, and honestly for strictly educational purposes, ITS A BUST! If I wanted to see tits I'd look down...but when paying 11.99 I want to see Johnson. What good is a porno without the Johnson?