Thursday, July 17, 2008

F.O.S.

For those that don't know that acronym refers to somebody, and believe me there are plenty of you around, that is full of shit. I come across these people so often that I think i might be turning into one. A Liar, somebody so confused they don't know who they are or what they want. You know what kind of people I'm talking about. Well, my breaking point was a few months ago. People are so convoluted that most don't know their asses from bloody heads. My journey with the F.O.S. person started, of course many years ago but more recently it started with a British African fella who has more issues than Dr. Phil could ever diagnosis. A genuinely smart person with narcissistic qualities more so than Narcissus himself. The kind of person that has nothing or wants nothing to do with you if you are not presently doing for him. The kind of man that at the ripe, grown-ass age of 25 throws hissy-fits and tantrums when things are not going his way.

What kind of F.O.S. mess is that? Who raised this person? Owing people money, not paying huge debts, lying, everything that I can't stand about a person. Needless to say this person was and pretty much is a disease and until they get out of the state of denial they are living in that everybody else has the problem and that they are the perpetual victim things aren't going to improve for their life. He moved around creating and gaining new friends that know nothing of his ridiculous past until the jig is up and they realize that he constantly takes advantage of people. He's always fun in the beginning but they soon realize issues go deeper than they could ever imagine.

Despite all of this, I wish this person well. It may not seem like it but I think he genuinely wants to be a good person but for whatever emotional, sociological reasons he is unable to sustain it. I just wish he'd take the advice of people who genuinely cared for him as a friend instead of ignoring and denying their claims. Good Luck with that existence. Lets see how that river in Egypt treats you in the long run.

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